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Posted by / 31-Jul-2020 17:32

I was running around my house in a black one piece bathing suit and remember looking down at my stomach, thinking that it stuck out too much.

I immediately sprinted outside in the daylight to get a better look and make sure I wasn’t fat.

They seemed to be intimidated by my dozens of Facebook pictures with darker men, causing them to run before they even got to know me.

“They’re riddled with sexually transmitted diseases” one ignorant guy messaged me on Tinder after seeing a single picture of me with black guys on my profile.

I began attending parties where I was one of the few white people.

Guys would approach me, rarely avoiding grabbing my butt or asking the question, “So you like black guys?

The most significant difference among them is that this Rochester belongs to a New England state that is listed in bold when you Google “Least diverse state.” If you flip through my year book from senior year, you will count 3 black students in my class, only one of them being male.

Gay, bisexual, straight, transgender, black, white, Asian, it was there and it was beautiful. “I can’t believe you dumped me for a n*%$#@.” Telling your parents about your new boyfriend is hard enough when his skin is the same color as yours, but it becomes even more difficult when he is at the opposite end of the color spectrum as you.

Friends asked me what it was like dating someone who is black and giggled asking if it was true about “what they say about size.” One friend admitted “I could never date a black guy because I wouldn’t be able to understand what he was saying.” All stereotypes I had been used to hearing about this unchartered territory.

When my relationship eventually ended, the phrase “once you go black, you never go back” rang in my ears.

Dating a black man is not the same as dating a white man.

I was pushed out of my comfort zone and I learned more than I ever would have had I been with some someone who grew up just as I did.

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I grew up in one of the seventeen cities in the United States named Rochester (Wikipedia, 2015).

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