Dating artistic men
MORE: He Lost His Job and Wants to Break Up TYPE 4: The tortured artist (or hipster-ish dude) This guy is the hardest to read and the most likely to go from hot to cold with no warning and often no reason (and if there is a reason it will most likely be the most absurd one you’ve ever heard, ex: you texted him back 15 minutes after he texted you thus indicating you are way too interested in him).Show too much interest and he’ll be scared away, show not enough interest and he’ll be too afraid to make any moves, show just the right amount of interest and he’ll get bored.
Obviously no one can live up to such enormous expectations and you will eventually show yourself to not be the goddess he envisioned and he will vanish from your life without a trace…. You might think I’m exaggerating, but any girl who has dated this kind of guy will know what I’m talking about.Instead, try to make him feel like a winner in all the other areas of his life.Make an effort to acknowledge and appreciate him for who he is.And don’t place extra demands on him and get on his case for not being as available to you.The last thing he needs or wants is added stress in his life and if you become a stressor rather than a source of stress-relief, he’ll start to pull away.
If you’re already dating him: I wouldn’t get my hopes up too high with this dude, he’s even more scattered and unfocused than the job-less guy and it will take him significantly longer to get his act together.